Understanding the new era

This is the most self sabotaging age we’ve yet to encounter. Can you remember back to a time when things weren’t good but they weren’t as bad? Let’s take early 2007-2008 for example. Life was about family, community, gatherings, love, and fellowship.. yes racism existed in certain parts of the country, hard times still fell on people but life was pretty good for the most part it was simple despite the times.. todays generation you’d be lucky to get a cup of sugar if you needed it..

Love wasn’t something that was easily taken away or even misused as easily..

In todays generation EVERYONE is hurt, heart broken, lonely or looking for their person. It’s easy to throw away relationship in todays society why is that?

Why does it seem like the more life happens the less people care?

why does it seem like there’s more thoughtless actions versus simple common sense and understanding for common struggles?

todays battles are very much spiritual, and mental there’s a ongoing battle with the want to be a good person, and to lives simple and peaceful life. But how does one go about simplifying life?

Let’s start by taking a deep breath and understanding that your struggles are relative to your life not anyone else’s

you can’t control my battles, and i can’t control yours, therefore work on understanding, we each have our own problems that can determine our actions, and outcomes. How we treat people and how we act towards them. Being kind, and understand with yourself and others will keep you in control of your problems.

”everyone has a warrior within, controlling him/her means controlling your anger”understand something, when you get upset at someone it’s simply on you. I can’t make you mad as a person, my actions simply triggered something inside of you. But understanding your capabilities, boundaries, and your lines as a warrior/warrioress. Step outside of your mind when you feel frustrated and seeing your warrior is upset but more so try to figure out what caused him/her to want to react. simply understanding what he/she is capable of doing in that moment play it over in your head but keep it there.

when i start to get upset by someone’s actions i turn to my warrior and i acknowledge his frustration we discuss what pissed him off, then i ask why did it piss him off could i have done something to prevent it. Which all boils down to we can’t control peoples actions, or words. However understanding people’s actions have consequences, and understanding which consequences to react on compared to which ones to let go will help a lotcommon sense should definitely be utilized in this..

Understand something, you shouldn’t have a motive to be a good person. helping people isn’t something you brag about or even have to mention. In this age of technology you see people recording helping someone, or documenting them doing something good. A helping hand should always go unnoticed to everyone but the person or the people you’re helping, whether it’s mental, financial, or physical if you can’t be friends with someone, or be kind to someone without showing it off or wanting something in return then you shouldn’t lead that person on

Such a simple rule right? One would think.

I was taught as a kid to not judge people, or to simply treat people in any other way than that of which I’d want to be treated.

why are we judging people based off of what they own? Can we not become poor ourselves?

realize people are the same. If you take away race and religion we all go though the same thing just different scenarios.

at the end of the day everyone is struggling in someway. Financially, mentally, physically, emotionally. Romantically.

Struggle is relative but understanding is universal.

Realize something if you want to live a happier life you have to stop allowing yourself to worry about things you’re not able to control. Our biggest problem is trying to control outside distractions.In simple terms Allow people to go through their struggles, allow yourself to struggle but understand materialistic living won’t get you there. Go on that vacation, do that hobby, enjoy your life Don’t try to control someone else’s is the start to understanding yours.