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Unfair critique is often a hidden compliment. Do the best you can and ignore all the hate you get for it.
However, you should also be taking your time to reflect on what you did so that you can learn from your mistakes and from your enemies. With that, they have no more power over you.
Nobody is perfect. Write your mistakes down and analyse them. Ask for objective, constructive and uplifting critique.
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Dale Carnegie shares how to finally stop worrying and start living using the practical tips he collected from various people from all over the world. Please note that I read the book in German, which is why some quotes might differ from the English version.
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