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3) Taking other people’s opinions of you to heart

3) Taking other people’s opinions of you to heart

“You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.”

That means we have to try to accept that we’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea — no matter what we do.

As long as being liked remains our top priority, we are constantly hyper-aware of how we come across.

And that’s bound to impact on your ability to show up authentically.

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The greatest challenge in life is to be our own person and accept that being different is a blessing and not a curse. A person who knows who they are lives a simple life by eliminating from their orbit anything that does not align with his or her overriding purpose and values. A person must be selective with their time and energy because both elements of life are limited.

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