If your partner has quality time as their primary language then you need to set aside time every day to give your partner your undivided attention. Sitting on a couch and watching some series together does not count as quality time.
Quality time is about looking at each other and talking. It means taking a walk with just two of you Or Going out to eat and looking at each other and discussing trivial matters of day to day of life.
When we sit together for 20 minutes and give each other undivided attention. We’re giving each other 20 minutes of life, we will never have those 20 minutes again.
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I have read five books on love and relationships and this is the most practical book I have come across so far. Like it doesn't preach love should be this and that. All those abstract meaningless words that are not practical at all. It is so good that you can apply the things given in the book in your real life and expect good results.
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