8. MAKE OTHER PEOPLE COME TO YOU - USE BAIT IF NECESSARY - Deepstash

8. MAKE OTHER PEOPLE COME TO YOU - USE BAIT IF NECESSARY

When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains -then attack. You hold the cards.

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A very good book for self discovering and understanding of different perspectives of various topics.

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