This is shown more in their full episode "Putting Others First - Selfishness vs. Selflessness Redux", (go watch it it's great!) But their main point was that while it's great to put others first, you shouldn't lose yourself in the act, and you can't help others if you're not even taking care of yourself. But it says that the world is a messy place and you can't be a perfect friend no matter how hard you try, and as long as you try to communicate with the involved parties, you can be a bit selfish.
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Sanders Sides is a video series created by Thomas Sanders. (Character) Thomas deals with mental health through talking with different sides of personality. There is a lot in these episodes that you can learn about mental health, dealing with conflict, and learning more about yourself everyday.
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