Kids with Autonomy

Excessively self-critical thoughts often have their roots in negative experiences with caregivers in childhood. Studies on relationships and attachments formed between parents and other primary caregivers show that the earliest bonds in life often have a significant effect on a person's future relationships as well as a person's sense of self.

When parents give children autonomy, encourage them to attempt things for themselves, and allow them to make mistakes without censure, children are more likely to develop self-confidence and grow up with a sense of security regarding their own choices.