2. Reward power
This type of power comes from the ability to reward/compensate another person.
Let’s say you have the resources that a project team needs. In the past, you typically provided the resources with no questions asked, and when the project team says, “thank you,” and you say, “no problem.” Now, what is the problem here?
When someone says “thank you” as a reward for something you’ve done is the crucial moment at which you have power. And here is how you can grab that power: instead of saying, “no problem” you can say, “of course, I know that you would do the same for me.”
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Power can be dangerous or it could be benevolent. It's something that we use in our everyday lives. What type do you wield?
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