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5 – Stay realistic.

5 – Stay realistic.

I’ve always tried to set challenging goals because I overestimate my capacities. But as I failed, I learned a few things. Here’s what I know now.

  • Never set goals during a high score.
  • Also, never set goals when you are in the dumpster. The negative bias makes you create goals that are too easy.
  • When you set a goal for something new, play carefully. Lower the expectations because you will experience many setbacks.
  • And don’t try to improve your last performance by more than 30%.

Frustration will force you to give up when you set too challenging goals. So it is way better to play safe.

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