Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

Small win will ripple your confidence in every single area of your life:
<ul>
<li>It comes from putting in the effort and work every single day because ladies and gentlemen effort compounds</li>
<li>It comes from committing to going to the gym three times a week consistently, it comes from committing to maintain your Deepstash streak, every single day and through your everyday habits that is where you can build abundance.</li>
<li>Once you build that sort of abundance people will just naturally come to you.</li>
</ul>
Success will naturally come to you, you attract success and that's one of the most beautiful things.

💸 Effort Compounds

By far the easiest way to do this is by mastering one area of your life.
So for example if you have an exam coming up and you study smart and Ace your exam you build confidence in academics you build confidence in school and naturally when you build confidence in one area of your life.

⚓ Build momentum

A couple of things you can do here are:
<ul>
<li>to be chill and non-reactive,</li>
<li>speaking clearly and a little bit slower,</li>
<li>stand up straight,</li>
<li>start walking with relaxed shoulder,</li>
<li>walk like you're a man with a mission , & more</li>
</ul>
If you follow these body language tips, you'll radiate that inner dark confidence.

👨‍🔧 Fix your body language

If you look at people like James Bond, Bruce Wayne or Ryan Reynolds they're all confident introverts. They all have this dark confidence and mysterious Charisma that's so attractive so if you're an introvert let me tell you right now you can use it to your advantage. 
Dark confidence is like a shadow that follows you, unyielding and magnetic. It’s the kind of confidence that doesn’t need to shout; it simply is. Picture a moonlit room, where silence speaks volumes and every step echoes purpose. That’s the essence of dark confidence.

📌 The Dark Confidence Aesthetic.

You're never as good as everyone tells you when you win, and you're never as bad as they say when you lose.

<ul>
<li>You want to be a good listener but it doesn't mean that you should just listen to everyone want.</li>
<li>So if you're in an interaction and you don't see it going anywhere you feel like it's a waste of your time, be willing to walk away.</li>
<li>Be a little bit more nonchalant and relaxed.</li>
<li>You don't have to please everyone but at the very least be real be authentic because that's what makes you look more mysterious and it's very attractive.</li>
</ul>

🔺Guard your attention 🔺

In a skill, you don't want to fake confidence, it has to be real and the way you get real confidence is through competence.
It's through the ability to say, you know what I have an undeniable proof that I am who I say I am, it is through having that abundance in your life whether that be having a body you're proud of, getting amazing grades in school or just smashing your personal goals.

🥋 Build abundance and mastery

Don't be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.

Remember, these words hold immense power. Let them resonate within you as you journey toward your own version of success! 🌟

🎉 Finally !!!

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence."

You've got to take the initiative and play your game. In a decisive set, confidence is the difference.

Being social is a skill that you can learn as an introvert so the main thing you want to do is learn how to network with people and provide value in Social Circles. And there are three really easy and effective ways you can do:
<ul>
<li>Compliment people without any hidden ask.</li>
<li>Become a good listener.</li>
<li>Guard your attention.</li>
</ul>

👥🎮 Learn Social Games

Change your mindset on what an introvert is. Most people think that introverts are just shy people but it simply means that you recharge your energy being alone & that you're comfortable being alone
Confidence isn't I know they'll like me it's I'm okay if they don't.
<ul>
<li>You got to have that self-belief and purpose where you don't have to say a lot in social interactions but you like your actions speak for themselves.</li>
<li>You ask more questions you listen more and you just naturally radiate that inner confidence.</li>
</ul>

🧠 Change your Mindset

You probably think about a lot of things for what you want whether that be to Ace an exam or getting a strong aesthetic body or building a personal brand online.
That kind of self-awareness and intelligence is just super super attractive.
So if you're an introvert you absolutely should be confident in yourself and once you change your mindset you'll just become much more powerful.

🪞 If you're an introvert you're probably introspective

People like to talk about themselves and they like to be heard so when it comes to social interactions you want to be the type of person who asks more question and who listen to get in that other person's spirit.
For example when I want to date with the girl I'm probably speaking 20 to 30% of the time I'm more laidback chill and I let her invest more.
Get to build a deeper connection with that person where you can understand their struggles you can understand their goals and aspirations.

👂🏻Become a good listener

When you like someone's stuff maybe it's a book they wrote or maybe it's a YouTube video they posted tell them immediately and don't ask for anything.
Or if you're if you're in class and you really like your friend's outfit for the day say to them.
If you do this over time of course has to be genuine and real you'll have a huge social network without even trying.

🧞‍♂️ Compliment people without any hidden ask

Picture a moonlit room, where silence speaks volumes and every step echoes purpose.

This is a full guide on how to get dark confidence as an introvert. Enjoy!

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This is a full guide on how to get dark confidence as an introvert. Enjoy!

Hey ~ I'm Collin and I'm a freshman at Yale University studying Computer Science and Music. I make new videos about college, entrepreneurship, productivity, biohacking, and whatever else is on my mind. Thanks so much for watching!

Daily Wisdom - https://www.instagram.com/collinjunus/
My Newsletter: https://collinthechad.substack.com
Subscribe: @IntellectualChad 

Chapters:
00:00 - Why this video will give you DARK CONFIDENCE
00:32 - Change Your Mindset (Important)
01:27 - Become a social leader (3 easy ways)
03:33 - Fix your body language
04:08 - Build abundance and mastery
05:25 - Thanks for watching!

Music used:
♪ Onion (Prod. by Lukrembo): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGQNrzqrGqw&t=0s
♪ Biscuit (Prod. by Lukrembo): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtZ2m2Zm3vY&t=0s
♪ Before Chill by Yomoti: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0QKFsoOOjk&t=0s
♪ Under the Trees by Blvk

Thanks for watching my videos! I sincerely hope you enjoy them :)

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