The problem with blame
If you focus on the outside and blaming others, your power evaporates. You can’t change anything because you have no stake in the game.
You become and remain a victim.
Having no responsibility means you also have no power. And having no power means you can’t affect change when and where you want.
As a victim in your own life and relationships, you retreat into defensiveness to protect yourself from a world that you assume is against you.
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