5. You often play the victim
Life is full of challenges, but it's important to take responsibility for your actions and reactions, rather than blaming others. This allows for personal growth and healthier relationships.
Signs of playing the victim include:
- Blaming others and feeling like the world is against you.
- Avoiding taking responsibility for your actions.
- Shifting blame onto others.
Remember, while we can't control everything, we can control our response. Instead of blaming others, focus on how you can grow and take control of your actions. Avoid playing the victim and work towards building healthier relationships.
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