- Move away from assigning blame and instead focus on how each person may have contributed to the situation.
- Understanding contributions can lead to solutions and prevent defensiveness.
1
0 reads
CURATED FROM
IDEAS CURATED BY
It's is a comprehensive guide on navigating challenging conversations. Here are the key takeaways in pointers:
“
Similar ideas to Reframe Blame to Contribution
....strip away the narrative people automatically build in their heads, those looming cloud of suppositions you carry around about a person or situation, disabling you from working effectively.
Rather than pointing fingers or assigning blame, the best tactic is to become self aware ...
... from a blame-based mindset to one of solutions and collaboration.
When you're feeling stuck, unfulfilled or disconnected from who you are, it can be easier to blame outside circumstances and people.
Take a step back in every situation and ask yourself what you did to al...
Remember the wonderful phrase: "First time, shame on you; the second time, shame on me." It perfectly describes responsibility and the importance of boundaries, it allows you to use each encounter to learn something about yourself and the other person so you can change the way th...
Read & Learn
20x Faster
without
deepstash
with
deepstash
with
deepstash
Personalized microlearning
—
100+ Learning Journeys
—
Access to 200,000+ ideas
—
Access to the mobile app
—
Unlimited idea saving
—
—
Unlimited history
—
—
Unlimited listening to ideas
—
—
Downloading & offline access
—
—
Supercharge your mind with one idea per day
Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.
I agree to receive email updates