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How to Work Alone
The ability to face distractions
Solitude can initially make you squirm but later becomes a bedrock for intense concentration and creativity. Deflect distractions and use solitude to your advantage:
- Listen to the sounds of nature. It calms the storm of thoughts and allows you to focus on the task at hand.
- Accept imperfection. Don't chase an "ideal" work environment; accept what you have.
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