Conflict
Ask your partner if it's a good time to talk and if not when would be a good time to talk. Let them know you're on their side and ask them how do we fix this. It should always be both of you vs the problem not you vs your partner. If you're feeling triggered communicate that you need a breather to self soothe and calm down. Remember when you hurt them you hurt love itself.
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Handling Conflict
Learn to fight constructively. The aim is to leave you feeling better about your partner.
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1. "How are you doing today?"
Not, "what" are you doing, but "HOW" are you doing?
- Take time to ask this question and look your partner directly in the eyes while asking.
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