How to Handle Shame - Deepstash

How to Handle Shame

When Shame Arises:

  • Recognize it
  • Sit with it
  • Allow it to guide you to parts of yourself that need love, validation, and time

Remember that you have the opportunity to love and accept yourself more fully in moments of shame.

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