“Your love makes me strong. Your hate makes me unstoppable.”

Studies have shown that you can take a group of people and connect them one way, and they'll be happy, cooperative, and innovative. You can take the same people and join them another way, with a different network topology, and they're unhappy, uncooperative, and stagnant.

The prop...

1. Be honest about your own nature and don't deny it.
2. Recognise deep narcissists: They never take responsibility for their actions and quickly become angry or defensive when criticised (...

Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. And how you choose to do that should be a personal journey, one that you don’t always have to share with the world.

Sharing them might open them up to scrutiny or judgment, which can take away from their sacredness. It’s like letting so...