Breaking Old Patterns

Aligning with God’s calling disrupts old patterns. We stop enabling unhealthy dynamics, participating in what dishonors Him, or tolerating disrespect. For some, these changes feel like rejection or a loss of control, but that’s not what it is. As we grow in emotional intelligence, we recognize these patterns for what they are.

Emotional regulation teaches us to pause, reflect, and respond thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively. Breaking free requires self-awareness and discipline, even when it disrupts others’ expectations.