Self-Love as the Key to Loving Others

Many times when people hear a talk on boundaries and taking responsibility for their own lives, they say, “That’s so self-centered. We should love one another and deny ourselves.” Or, they actually become selfish and self-centered. Or, they feel “guilty” when they do someone a favor. 

When you’re not rooted in your own worth, you go out of the way to make others happy. A lack of inner love translates into a need for constant approval and appreciation by others.

To do:

• Take note of the times you go against your own will and do something...

1. You can always change. You're the only person who gets to decide who you become.
2. Change your habits, not your goals.
3. Take comfort in the idea that we live in a society where we love seeing people changing for the better.
4. It's never too late to change. As long as y...