The Comfort of Hypocrisy
Rules-for-thee-but-not-for-me thinking isn’t just about personal hypocrisy—it’s also about power. The most effective way to control others is to enforce rules on them while excusing yourself.
We see this in politics, corporations, media, and even personal relationships:
• Leaders preach sacrifice while living in luxury.
• Influencers sell “authenticity” while curating every moment.
• Friends demand loyalty but break trust the second it’s convenient.
Hypocrisy isn’t just an accident—it’s a tool.
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Life is too short to live in self-deception, blind to our own contradictions while criticizing everyone else. I’ve seen firsthand how easily people justify their own actions while condemning the same behavior in others. This isn’t just frustrating—it’s a trap that keeps us from growth, accountability, and real integrity. My experiences have forced me to slow down, observe, and recognize how precious time and truth really are. If we want a better world, we have to start by being honest with ourselves first.
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