Being negative to appear analytical

A good analogy serves as an intellectual springboard that helps us jump to conclusions. It is efficient if the findings are likely to be correct, and can save time and effort.

However, if the analogy is misleading, we are likely not to notice. Assumptions reinforce our preconceptions and pr...

Be upfront about it. You might want to try saying, "We're not getting along that great, what can we do? Let's try to figure out what's getting in our way." See if you can find a pattern. Are there topics or problems that trigger you both?

See if they'll meet you halfway. In the e...

• Make sure that you're really dealing with a double standard and start asking the person in question to explain their reasoning.
• Emphasize the logical and moral concerns related to the double standard you're considering and help the person applying the standard internalize those con...