We got desire to be normal like others. By being normal, we can hide behind the crows of people and we feel safe in there. For example, when teacher is looking for a student to answer and you don't want to be that person, than you try not to look straight to your teacher. Being normal and be in a crowd is usually comfortable but not always.

Desire To Be Normal

But sometimes being in the crowd is not comfortable because to hide, it's pretty hard to get attention. But by being unique , it's easy to get attention. And you can feel more free to be unique than hiding in the crowd.

Desire To Be Unique

You might wonder how those two desires can be together. It's easy. Just follow the desires you got at the moment and follow the benefits. I actually recommend you to be yourself. If you are yourself, than you would be normal in some situations and sometimes unique. And it's not wrong to be either normal or unique.

What I Want To Say

We have both desires to be unique and normal

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Unique and Normal

I think some people are afraid of having their own idea. That might be because their ideas might be wrong or they might have arguments because of their ideas. I understand them but I also know that it's not the best way

For Who Are Afraid 

Your idea might be wrong and some might not like your idea but that's not only about your idea but also every other ideas. So don't be afraid of it

Having An Idea

Yes, you can be wrong still. So you always need to examine your idea over and over. And having an argument is a good thing because you can learn from it. You might think your idea is wrong in some parts. Then change your idea! Always be open minded with every idea.

Unique and Normal

Embracing Ideas: Overcoming Fear, Embracing Imperfection, and Nurturing Growth

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