Emotions it's how we react after gaining or losing. Don't get rid of bad emotions, just manage them.

Gain Or 

If you feel sad it's our mind telling us we lost something or someone important to us. It's a good opportunity for clarifying our values .

Sadness

The key to anger is to leverage it in productive ways.

Anger

"People who struggle with anger tend to feel a lack of control in other, more important areas of their lives. But rather than address those areas, they get angry at small stupid things that they do have power over"

Quote On Anger

Shame tends to make us self-obsessed. The best way to counteract shame is to focus on helping others, and the best place to start is to help others in the area where you feel ashamed.

Shame 

We fear uncertainty and change in our lives. Coincidentally, the most important things we ever do generate a lot of uncertainty and change in life. Therefore, fear correlates pretty well with importance.Therefore, as a rule, I’ve learned that the more afraid I am of something, the more I should probably act on it.

Fear

Unconditional love it's appreciating someone not despite their flaws and shortcomings, but because of them. It’s respecting and supporting each other without the expectation of some sort of payoff or benefit to yourself. It’s understanding that to love someone, you may not always like them, or even want to be around them.

Love 

Learn how to understand and manage your emotions: from happiness, sadness, anger, fear, and shame to—the most elusive of all—love.

How to Understand Your Emotions

Aleks Seretyrov