1. why we feel self conscious when it comes to public speaking because we are not used to it. Author advised to practise it n number of times going in front of people and talking with them.2.He says that the main reason we become self conscious is because we go unprepared, having nothing to say while giving speech, which lead our mind to anxiety and stiffness to body.3. After preparing expect success because if you say to yourself in mind that you are going to fail then you will definitely experience that failure

Acquiring confidence before an audience

In every aspect of our lives we communicate and when we master this skill
we experience growth and happiness. 

Written by bestselling author Dale Carnegie, along with J. Berg Esenwein, The Art of Public Speaking lays out the important principles of creating and delivering successful speeches. Each chapter of this encouraging book will help readers hone their articulation skills and enable them to deliver an impactful speech as well. Read this book to find out how to: Overcome stage fright and develop self-confidence. Use different tools to get your ideas across convincingly. Make your speech interesting. Hold your listener's attention. A classic work that has tremendously helped people over the years, this book not only teaches you the dos and don'ts of public speaking, it also provides you with ideas on how to write an influential speech. The book is written by bestselling author Dale Carnegie in collaboration with J. Berg Esenwein, and is meant for any reader who needs help regarding their public speaking skills.

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Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer, and the developer of courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills.

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When you are talking to someone on phone it becomes hard to bring their attention as you cant use your gestures and facial expression. You can use their name while talking as this will bring his attention back in conversation as for anybody their name is the most pleasing sound for them in whole world.

Name shower

Little strokes of genuine compliments like ,nice job, well done,not bad ,you lok great,etc are going to impact others a lot as everyone likes to be noticed.

Little Strokes

Before going to meet with say doctor, engineer,artist,etc,to have a great and impactful conversation get some buring issue of that industry to use it as fodder for conversation this will have a great impact on them and will form rapport.

Baring their hot button

Whenever you say thank you to anyone ,don't say thank you alone state the reason of your thankyou like thank you for coming ,thank you for waiting ,thank you for being so understand. This way of gratifing someone is more impactful.

Never the naked thank you

Whenever you are going to do a deal of contract , buying or selling something learn some insider term of that market as this will make you able to bargain well and get a good sort of benefit from it.

Bluffing for bargain

When you are going to enter into any gathering, any party or elsewhere before entering into the room stop first at the doorway survey the room and its energy level i.e., whether it is dull or energetic by looking at what people are doing like who is talking to whom or doing what activities. Then,enter into the room and take decisions afterward otherwise you may do such things that protray bad image.

Rubberneck The Room

we always feel out of words while talking to anybody.This therapy can help to deal with it . In this therapy on every sunday you decide to do activities that you haven't done till now like playing chess, tennis, travel vlogging . This will give you enough jargons to talk with anybody without showing themself that you are an outsider of that field.

Scramble Therapy

A practical guide on how to make seamless small talk that leads to important connections 

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"You'll not only break the ice, you'll melt it away with your new skills." -- Larry King "The lost art of verbal communication may be revitalized by Leil Lowndes." -- Harvey McKay, author of “How to Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive” What is that magic quality makes some people instantly loved and respected? Everyone wants to be their friend (or, if single, their lover!) In business, they rise swiftly to the top of the corporate ladder. What is their "Midas touch?" What it boils down to is a more skillful way of dealing with people. The author has spent her career teaching people how to communicate for success. In her book How to Talk to Anyone (Contemporary Books, October 2003) Lowndes offers 92 easy and effective sure-fire success techniques-- she takes the reader from first meeting all the way up to sophisticated techniques used by the big winners in life. In this information-packed book you’ll find: 9 ways to make a dynamite first impression 14 ways to master small talk, "big talk," and body language 14 ways to walk and talk like a VIP or celebrity 6 ways to sound like an insider in any crowd 7 ways to establish deep subliminal rapport with anyone 9 ways to feed someone's ego (and know when NOT to!) 11 ways to make your phone a powerful communications tool 15 ways to work a party like a politician works a room 7 ways to talk with tigers and not get eaten alive In her trademark entertaining and straight-shooting style, Leil gives the techniques catchy names so you'll remember them when you really need them, including: "Rubberneck the Room," "Be a Copyclass," "Come Hither Hands," “Bare Their Hot Button,” “The Great Scorecard in the Sky," and "Play the Tombstone Game,” for big success in your social life, romance, and business. How to Talk to Anyone, which is an update of her popular book, Talking the Winner's Way (see the 5-star reviews of the latter) is based on solid research about techniques that work! By the way, don't confuse How to Talk to Anyone with one of Leil's previous books, How to Talk to Anybody About Anything. This one is completely different!

"You'll not only break the ice, you'll melt it away with your new skills." -- Larry King "The lost art of verbal communication may be revitalized by Leil Lowndes." -- Harvey McKay, author of “How to Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive” What is that magic quality makes some people instantly loved and respected? Everyone wants to be their friend (or, if single, their lover!) In business, they rise swiftly to the top of the corporate ladder. What is their "Midas touch?" What it boils down to is a more skillful way of dealing with people. The author has spent her career teaching people how to communicate for success. In her book How to Talk to Anyone (Contemporary Books, October 2003) Lowndes offers 92 easy and effective sure-fire success techniques-- she takes the reader from first meeting all the way up to sophisticated techniques used by the big winners in life. In this information-packed book you’ll find: <ul><li>9 ways to make a dynamite first impression</li> <li>14 ways to master small talk, "big talk," and body language</li> <li>14 ways to walk and talk like a VIP or celebrity</li> <li>6 ways to sound like an insider in any crowd</li> <li>7 ways to establish deep subliminal rapport with anyone</li> <li>9 ways to feed someone's ego (and know when NOT to!)</li> <li>11 ways to make your phone a powerful communications tool</li> <li>15 ways to work a party like a politician works a room</li> <li>7 ways to talk with tigers and not get eaten alive </li></ul> In her trademark entertaining and straight-shooting style, Leil gives the techniques catchy names so you'll remember them when you really need them, including: "Rubberneck the Room," "Be a Copyclass," "Come Hither Hands," “Bare Their Hot Button,” “The Great Scorecard in the Sky," and "Play the Tombstone Game,” for big success in your social life, romance, and business. How to Talk to Anyone, which is an update of her popular book, Talking the Winner's Way (see the 5-star reviews of the latter) is based on solid research about techniques that work! By the way, don't confuse How to Talk to Anyone with one of Leil's previous books, How to Talk to Anybody About Anything. This one is completely different!

Leil Lowndes is an author and internationally recognized communications expert who specializes in subconscious interactions. She has conducted hundreds of seminars in the US and around the world for major corporations, associations, and the general public, and frequently appears as a guest expert on national television shows and major news networks. She has authored ten bestselling books on communications — most recently, How to Talk to Anyone at Work: 72 Little Tricks for Big Success Communicating on the Job — and is published in over 26 foreign languages. She lives in New York City.

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