Most people think love is wanting. Love is desire. A love story starts with a pre relationship flame, relationship commitment and ends with a heart break or happily ever after. But not always.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify"> Ever heard of Gamophobia? It is the fear of commitment. It can have its own forms and levels. For some its marriage and for some its the fear of being in a relationship. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Now the reason can be many. Fear of being vulnerable, fear of breakups, misunderstandings and sometimes even the thought of us being emotionally unstable or unavailable. Reasons can be indeed many. </li></ul>

Complexities Of Mind

Because it is fear of commitment, you also get a fear of being emotionally close to someone or having feelings for someone. As if it happens it will turn into a fight with our own selves.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">But this doesn't mean not being able to love. You do catch feeling and you won't accept that. Here comes the fear of acceptance.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">This creates the notion of philophobia that is the fear of loving someone.</li></ul>

Does That Mean Not Being Able To Love? 

Isn't it also love when two people don't wanna be in a relationship but still love each other. Still care for each other. There isn't commitment of future or the tags of girlfriend and boyfriend. There's no expectations of being there always and forever. You will procastinate less about future and focus more on the bond itself. Many a times in commitment we stay even without feelings or mindfulness just becoz of the Promise.But do you really want someone stick to you because they have to? Or want them to be with you because they want to? Without commitment you can walk away being honest.

Its Beautiful Even Without Commitments

You explore more when you feel the need to answer your questions about yourself. And what you find always stays being a part in you.

A Perspective Of Love

Sanchita Sabat