Expectations Kills Possibilities

Well it is 'The Energy Game'. When you expects something, your subconscious mind spread the energy waves and try to make the environment more favorable. You will not believe me at first. But what I found is, the more you try this, the more powerful wave your subconscious mind will produce. You have to keep this practice until you get the result (+ve Result). 

So you have to expect positive. That's why they say "Always Positive". 

How will I do this regularly? Tell your inner you to keep this practice carry on. You will have no longer to do it by yourself. But it takes a Hard-Kick-Start at first.

This could be a bit tricky for your mind. Because our mind expects what we feed it. A child expects a lot from you when he give you smartphone to install a good decent game from Play Store which he just watched on a YouTube gaming Channel. Thus he expects positive. Thus, it is more likely that he will play the game.

This will lead him to keep this practice. In his teenage, he will develop a strong powerful Wave Producing System. And these are the people who are always positive.

The reverse Case:You can now easily imagine the other side.He believes that only his Hard work will make him successful

Sometime you may have observed that your reverse expectation gave you a positive result. And that is true sometimes. Because you can't be the same all the times. You have to change. A student laptop will not be used for reading articles all the time. A student watches movies sometimes. This is change, and it is necessary for our existence. 

So when I have to expect negative? When you think that your positivity is failing. And that is a sign of change. Another answer can be : It depends on your situation. If you have practiced positivity many times, your subconscious mind will tell you.

There may be situations when you can't expect anything from life. Like entrance exam result. You passed or you failed. What happened in background? Your previous actions are responsible for now. What you have done previously will be summarized now. If you really did Hard work, you are more likely to pass. Else, you know. This is Why Karama Counts. So please try to be kind and problem solver for all. Not only this will give you inner peace but maximize your positive results also.  

First thing that only you can maximize or minimize your results. 

If you are polity and honest to your friends, they will support you. You will not have to expect from them. 

Do hard work instead of shortcut. Smart work will do sometimes. Because hard work has no alternatives. To pass an exam, you have to study(smart or hard, depends on you).

Learn some Psychological methods to win other's mind. This can work if you facing Shape-shifters in your life.

And MEDITATE. Meditate to become a foreteller. You can use your skills for what you should expect from life.

I fully agree that expectations hurts when they kills the possibilities. So I will not expect anything from anyone. You can't. Because your mind was fed in a way of expectations. You can force yourself now to not expect , but all you will get is PAIN. So instead of losing hope, try something new. Try to believe people. Try to expects positive. It will be hard and painful for a while, but it can save you from lifetime pain. Because NOTHING IS PERMANENT. Bad-days are days, not years.