The Rudest Book Ever Summary

Everyone tries to market themselves as someone they are not. That's why relying on first impressions is a shitty way of making judgments.

The best way is to look at their actions and wait until you gather enough real-life data.

Making assumptions without the right data will never give you an accurate analysis of a person.

Admire people and learn from them. But don’t become someone’s blind follower.

The element of honesty is what separates blind following from admiration.

Honesty removes the fake image of perfection from your eyes. Instead, you see ordinary, accessible people with flaws and struggles, just like you. That’s why you admire them, for their reality.

When you see perfect people online, you realize that you lack something they don’t, which causes self-doubt.

The thing is, you don’t have any real-life data about them. You have no idea what they are like in real life.

In real life, people aren’t perfect. People have so many flaws that even they aren’t aware of.

Society's rules can hold us back a lot of the time, but what if the key to real happiness is to be independent and think for ourselves? "The Rudest Book Ever" by Shwetabh Gangwar gives you brave ideas on how to live your life the way you want to.

Gangwar starts with a strong message: think about everything. Instead of mindlessly following what other people expect of you, it's time to develop your own ideas and question the rules that others have set for you. To find a road that truly makes you happy, you need to learn how to think for yourself.

Rejections are a normal part of life, but Gangwar sees them as chances. Instead of having rejection affect how you feel about yourself, learn to see it as a normal part of life and a chance to grow, not as a reason to try to please other people.

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Be unapologetically yourself .

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Try to understand this: the day you can look at a bunch of people all competing with one another to be better in the eyes of someone, and choose to not be a part of that game, is the day you win in the mental battle of life. Look at that figure that you want to impress and see a person in them, nothing but a person just like other people you know. If they have the power to give you opportunities, then focus on what makes one capable to get that opportunity. Screw serving that person.

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We keep prioritising happiness because we are convinced that happiness is all we want. In doing so we ignore things which have nothing to do with happiness like self-respect, morality, common sense etc.

No one can make you feel special for long time.