Aaditya 's Key Ideas from The Rudest Book Ever
by Shwetabh Gangwar

When you see perfect people online, you realize that you lack something they don’t, which causes self-doubt.

The thing is, you don’t have any real-life data about them. You have no idea what they are like in real life.

In real life, people aren’t perfect. People have so many flaws that even they aren’t aware of.

Getting depressed or motivated by rejection only means that you are desperate for another person’s approval, which you definitely shouldn’t be.

Rejections have nothing to do with you. It is you who has to decide your self-worth. Nobody knows “you” more than you.

You never stop chasing those things that make you happy or give you immense joy. Once you get something pleasurable, you crave more.

Happiness doesn’t last for eternity.

Therefore, one should continually strive for self-satisfaction. The search for self-satisfaction gives us peace of mind and happiness as a product.

Specialness is something you earn. If you need somebody else to tell you that you are special, then you have not done anything to earn it. People aren’t qualified enough to decide whether someone is special or not.

Specialness should be the feeling felt on upgrading in life after mastering a skill.

Everything you’ve learned so far comes from someone telling you how to feel and what to think. If you want to become intelligent, you have to admit that you don’t know anything or that what you know is probably wrong.

Avoid blindly following beliefs and learn to question. Wrong beliefs make you stupid; it’s the right ones that set you free.