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Managing Perfectionism

Top Strategies for dealing with perfection paralysis and achieving your biggest goals

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How to manage anxiety and self-doubt

Strategies for setting realistic goals

The importance of self-compassion and self-care

How to identify and overcome perfectionism

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Beyond Order

Beyond Order

Indistractable

Indistractable

The Midnight Library

The Midnight Library

Influential people you will learn from

Jordan B. Peterson

Jordan B. Peterson

Nir Eyal

Nir Eyal

Julie Li-Eyal

Julie Li-Eyal

Matt Haig

Matt Haig

3 Top Key Ideas (92 total)

Standards vs Reality

Most perfectionists can’t see their standards are unrealistic and bad for them. To find if you’re a perfectionist, ask yourself if your standards:

  • ... are higher than those of others.
  • ... can be met by you or others.
  • ... help or get in the way of you achieving your goals.
  • ... can be relaxed without affecting much the end result.

Thinking Like An Athlete

In sports, the drive for perfectionism is a positive force and turn setbacks into opportunities to reflect, learn, and adjust your approach. But regular perfectionists keep revisiting past failures as a form of self-condemnation.

All this does is cause them to raise the bar even higher, increasing the likelihood of failure. Try to see failure as simply a launching place for success, so you can break away from perfectionism.

Asking For 30/90 Feedback

If a project is at 90%, you’re asking for line-level feedback like typos, glitches, or silly mistakes. At 30%, the reviewer skips over those things (assuming they’ll be looped in later to help with them) and focuses on the broader strokes: structure, strategy, approach.

Using this technique can help curb the socially-prescribed perfectionism in the workplace. It also makes your managers more aware of the status of your projects, and thus less likely to pile more on you.

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