What do you need to do?

• The beliefs we must conquer: “I have to,” “It’s all important,” and “I can do both.”
• The beliefs to replace them with: “I choose to,” “Only a few things really matter,” and “I can do anything but not everything.”

Often we think of doing so many things but are unable to achieve anything in the attempt to do more than our bandwidth. 

We need to focus on a few things and do them well. This requires sacrificing low-priority stuff.

Well, everything else. The weather, the economy, circumstances, other people’s emotions or judgments, disasters.

We always wish we would never struggle, we do our best to avoid trouble. What great people do is the opposite. They are their best in these situations. They turn persona...