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Why do we argue?
With a clash of ideas, there will be conflict. The purpose of a conversation is to communicate, to allow the listener to understand our point of view. And, we listen, not just to respond to them, but to understand them.
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Are emotions good for arguments?
Showing your emotions is important, especially if they are a means to express what you're feeling to your partner.
However, when emotions like anger or aggression hit that point of hurting your loved one, that's when we've gone too far. To prevent this, it's important to be mindful of how ...
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Conflicts
When there are differing perspectives, there will be a conflict of interest. This means that arguments are almost inevitable. But why and how we argue are such important aspects to be explored to build strong and meaningful relationships.
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Argue mindfully
All in all, it is important to have the bigger picture in mind when having these conversations. Also, remember that no argument, no conflict is worth losing your loved one over. Communication is the first step to resolution.
It's not about "you versus me", it's "us against the problem".
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How do we argue?
There must be trust, that both parties are here for conflict resolution, and not hurt each other.
Create a safe space - a space for a non-judgmental, open conversation. To allow the other person to be honest about their feelings, whilst feeling safe and secure when sharing your feelings.
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4. A Willingness To Be Empathetic
Our own experiences always color our perception. But in a great relationship there is a willingness to understand your partner’s needs, wants and point of view. You put your ego aside and understand where they are coming from.
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Importance Of Listening
Listening is the other half of communication and is overlooked most of the time.
The true benefit of listening is not for the speaker but for the listener.
Being able to listen and understand to other people and their ideas and implementing those to our own is...
The People We Argue With At Work
- It is inevitable to disagree with colleagues, bosses and coworkers at work.
- People deploy varied techniques and styles when they clash with their work colleagues, but there are no guidelines on how we work through the conflict.
- It also depends on if we are trying to ensure...
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