This feeling was different. I found myself grinning until my cheeks hurt, my scalp prickling till I thought it might lift off my head. My tongue ran away from me, giddy with freedom. This, and this, and this, I said to him. I did not have to fear that I spoke too much. I did not have to worry tha...

I’ve created this self image that I need to be a confident, charismatic guy all the time, and that if I don’t act confident, no one will like me.

The slight problem with this is that no one is confident all the time. And when I inevitably fail to live up to my own expectations, it causes me...

1. Am I clear about my deepest desires and goals for my life?
2. Why do I want what I want? 
3. What else is possible for me this year?
4. What am I making the feelings mean, and how can I take action anyway?
5. Am I making excuses, like, “This is too hard,” or “I don’t feel...