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Techniques to dial down chatter

  • Venting to friends does more harm than good because it pushes away those you need most.
  • Distanced self-talk - speaking to yourself in the second or third person - helps to gain emotional perspective "Rachel, you should calm down, it is not the end of the world."
  • The power of touch - putting your arms around someone.
  • Activities that induce "awe", such as a walk in the mountains or looking at a great work of art, can help with a sense of perspective.
  • Writing a daily journal.
  • Creating exterior order can impact your interior order.
  • Temporal distancing. Try to see yourself one year from now.

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Internal monologue

Internal monologue

Your internal monologue shapes your mental wellbeing. The silent conversations people have with themselves influence how they live their lives.

Every person sometimes finds themselves listening to an unhelpful voice in their head. While learning how to harness the voice in ...

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Too much self talk

Too much self talk

According to one study, we talk to ourselves at 4,000 words per minute. (By comparison, 6,000 spoken words, such as the state of the Union Address, lasts more than an hour.) No wonder that listening to it can be exhausting!

It can also be self-sabotaging. R...

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Introspection can be harmful

According to research, engaging in introspection can do significantly more harm than good. Our thoughts don't save us from ourselves but can lead to grave consequences.

It does not mean that we should avoid and repress our thoughts. Instead, we should take a step back and get some perspecti...

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How to quiet your mind chatter

  • Do distanced self-talk. We can coach ourselves through our problem like we're talking to another person. Use your name to address yourself. "Jim, you could do this."
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