As you’re determining the habits or resolutions you’re trying to set, make the habit part of a bigger cause that’s worth the struggle.

You’re not just going to the gym, you’re building a new body that you’re not ashamed of so you can start dating again.

• We tend to bite off more than we can chew, go too fast too soon, and then get overwhelmed too quickly.
• We’re conditioned these days to expect and receive instant gratification.
• We expect to get in shape very quickly, not remembering that it took us decades of unhealthy living...

There are 3 parts to a good or bad habit: Cue (what triggers the action), Routine (the action itself), Reward (the positive result because of the action).

1. Find a friend or group of friends to build the habits with you.
2. Cultivate discipline with consequences: Every time I skip ______________ this month, I will pay $50 to my wife/husband/friend.
3. Never miss two in a row.
4. Don't pick the habits you ha...

Do less. Do way less. Keep your goals SMALL and simple. Only build one habit at a time.

Want to start cooking your own healthy meals? J...

First, stop relying on willpower and motivation. Both are finite and fickle resources that will abandon you when you need them most.

Use systems and outside forces to make the routine even easier to build.