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Role Of Family And Friends

Role Of Family And Friends

We tend to imitate the habits of three social groups: the close (family and friends), the many (the tribe), and the powerful (those with status and prestige).

One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where (1) your desired behavior is the normal behavior and (2) you already have something in common with the group.

The normal behavior of the tribe often overpowers the desired behavior of the individual. Most days, we’d rather be wrong with the crowd than be right by ourselves. 

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Ricky Sid Professionally I am a physical therapist. Love outdoors and my kid. Family is the most important thing. Sharing things with you guys makes me learn more of these stuff that I read. Thanks

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