Replace self-observation for judgment
Self-judgement is because we allow our inner critic to make us feel less. Then we turn our judgment on others to try and feel better. But moving between the two extremes make us forever try to prove our worthiness at the expense of ourselves and others.
When you notice those feelings arise, try to only notice them without judging yourself.
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