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Talk With Your Hands
Research shows that people who communicate with their hands are viewed as more agreeable, warm, and energetic.
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Never Talk Badly About Others
Charming people do not speak ill of another person. Even when they're giving others constructive criticism, they take care to do so as encouragingly as possible.
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The"Resting Nice Face"
It's easy to come off as endearing when you're also always appearing friendly and approachable.
Actively smiling regularly can lift your mood as well as that of others around you.
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Compliment With Confidence
When someone known for their charisma compliments you, it gives the impression that it is not only sincere but valuable, because of their natural confidence.
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Remember Names
It feels good to hear our own names, and when someone uses it we're more likely to pay greater attention to them.
Use mnemonic devices if you have a hard time remembering names.
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Tell Good Stories
Endearing people are natural storytellers. They captivate and entertain with their stories, without overt bragging.
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Make People Feel Important
A charming person makes everyone, regardless of their status, feel important. People around them feel heard, understood, and worthy of their time.
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