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8 Tips to Gain Control Over Negative Self-Talk

  1. Personify your inner critic. Give it a silly identity that’s outside of you so you can gain distance from it.
  2. Play with your thoughts like sing the self-critical thoughts or use humor and lightness by imagining a funny font.
  3. Remind yourself with a rubber band snap and silently say “STOP.” to come back to the present moment.
  4. End with an “and.” to focus on what other facts might also be true.
  5. Draft power statements.A power statement is a reminder that helps bring you back to your center.
  6. Keep a brag file of accomplishments on a daily or weekly basis.
  7. Create a playlist
  8. Give someone else a compliment

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Self-Talk

An inner voice that provides a running monologue internal chatter combining conscious thoughts and unconscious beliefs and biases, provides a way for the brain to interpret and process daily experiences.

This critical inner voice can raise awareness of internal and external obstacles to ach...

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Types Of Self Talk

Destructive self-talk causes you to question yourself so constantly that you can soon become paralyzed with doubt and uncertainty.

In constructive self-talk, you cheer yourself on, focus on the positive aspects of a situation, and allow yourself to feel goo...

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Most Common Thought Distortions

  1. All-or-nothing or black-and-white thinking
  2. Overgeneralization—applying the results of one situation to all similar situations
  3. Mental filter—dwelling on one negative detail in an otherwise good experience
  4. Jumping to conclusions...

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Rewriting your internal script

  1. Notice automatic thoughts. Notice the words and ideas being expressed.
  2. Identify distortions. See if you recognize any thought distortions or irrational beliefs like should, must, have to, ought, always, and never.
  3. Challenge your thoug...

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