The Talking Paradox

• The more you talk, the more personal information is divulged. Your likes and dislikes, thought patterns, preferences, everything is exposed.
• It feels good and comforting to talk if the other person is listening, but good communication is never about talking too much.
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There is a difference between talking to and talking with a child.

The developmental gain in language and literacy skills has more to do with the quality of the talk than the quantity of words heard by a child. Taking turns to speak give...

• Focus on what’s being said instead of how it affects you or what you want to say.
• Put away your phone. It’s rude and multitasking takes away from comprehension.
• Ask follow-up and confirmation questions. This shows you’re listening and care about wh...