If all you have done in your relationship is he calls you up and says, "Let's go to dinner." Then, you'll asked where you want to go. He'll said, "I chose last time you choose this time." And you'll agree.

You should try a night where each of you picks a place, and the other one is force to...

Ask each other about:

a. what would you do when you're married?

b. How would you live if you are married?

c. How would you raise your children?

d. What religion would you raise your children?

e. How often would you go to church?

f. Public or private school woul...

1. You MUST respect the other person.

2. You MUST compromise. Little ones and big ones.

3. You MUST talk openly. Communication is critical.

Look at these three things and make sure you have them in your relationship before you contemplate either move.

If you think these are not important, and you'll reason out that love will find a way. Well, love runs into walls just like the rest of us. If the wall is constant, if there's no hole on it, if there's no way through it, eventually it can knock down too.

Before you make the decision for you...

"Do you respect that person?" You don't need to be married to find out if you respect that person, that should be something that you should establish. You should ask yourself about the partner that you're with, "Do they respect me? or they only respect me when I wear the ...