Law 8: Make Other People Come To You—Use Bait If Necessary. - Deepstash

Law 8: Make Other People Come To You—Use Bait If Necessary.

  • Master your anger yet play on people’s natural tendency to react angrily when pushed and baited.

Key to Power: Keep the initiative, to get others to react to your moves and keep them on the defensive.

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