We're conditioned to care more about what others think of us
We learn to care about how others feel about us but avoid focusing on how we feel about ourselves. This creates a society in which people try to impress others in order to be liked, but deep down they remain unsatisfied because they don't like themselves.
We change ourselves to fit in, rather than changing the world by being ourselves.
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