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9. Unrealistic Expectations

9. Unrealistic Expectations

Today's world we align success to have more money or fame. We set big goals and quit that after some time. Because our goals are unrealistic.

Let go of unrealistic expectations of yourself and others, instead focus on achievable and healthy goals.

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