The Illusion of People Pleasers
We often admire people pleasers for their helpfulness, kindness, and constant willingness to assist. However, beneath the surface, some of them may secretly resent their actions.
This reveals the discrepancy between the persona of an easygoing, agreeable person and the truth lurking beneath.
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