4. Avoid preaching and moralizing: - Deepstash
4. Avoid preaching and moralizing:

4. Avoid preaching and moralizing:

 When it comes to dating and romance, preaching or adopting a sanctimonious attitude can be anti-seductive. Focus on creating a connection based on pleasure and equality rather than imposing your values or beliefs onto others.

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