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Six Ways to Respond Rather than React

Helping Others Respond

Helping Others Respond
  • Make your expectations clear and help people understand when and where you expect response rather than immediate reaction.
  • It is hard to encourage or inspire others to respond if you aren’t modeling it yourself.
  • Once you are responding rather than reacting, you are in a better position to coach others based on your experience, citing examples and more.

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Have Vision

Incorporate an end vision for your business and shape tasks to achieve that vision -- every week and month. Turn those ideas into executable plans.

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The Unconscious Mind

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Of Reaction And Response

A reaction is instant and driven by the beliefs of the unconscious mind. When you say or do something “without thinking,” that’s the unconscious mind making decisions in your stead.

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