How To Approach Them
The first rule to get along with a high value person is, don't try to show-off. You should let them talk and teach you what they know. You should make them your mentors. You learn more in listening than in talking.
Try to engage in a thoughtful conversation. Don't waste their time or yours babbling worthless things. Every word, evey sentence that comes out of your mouth should have a meaning and a degree of value to it.
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