The BETRAYAL wounds: adopt the “Controller” mask

Origine: ages of two to four (Due to unresolved Oedipus complex: felt manipulated or betrayed because their phallic expectations weren’t fulfilled)

Concerned parent: the opposite sex. 

Personality:

• has a responsible, strong and demanding personality.
• opinionated, jump to conclusions quickly 
•  good at lying, manipulating and seducing others. 
• cares a lot about their reputation
• impressed by famous and rich people, and seek to be special/important as well.
• don’t trust easily, especially the opposite sex. 
• don’t like to disclose their weaknesses. 
• position themselves as being very independent