's Key Ideas from Heal Your Wounds and Find Your True Self
by Lise Bourbeau

Greatest fear and need:

Their greatest fear is panic whereas their greatest need is establishing a sense of belonging

Body Type:

Tense and small body with asymmetrical parts

Tendency to suffer from anorexia, skin problems, diarrhea, arrhythmia, cancer,..

Origine: ages of 1 to 3 (as they are deprived of good enough nourishment and support in their love-affection) 

Concerned parent: the same-sex parent. 

Personality:

• cause drama to attract attention
• want people to feel sorry for them. 
• Good at social life and close relationships. 
• can act as the victim or the savior to attract more attention. 
• talk about themselves a lot
• doesn’t like to make decisions on their own
• have emotional ups and downs. 

Greatest fear and need:

Their greatest fear is loneliness and their greatest need is attention. 

Body Type:

Long and thin with weak legs, a curved back and big sad eyes.

May suffer from back problems, asthma, bronchitis, migraines, low blood sugar, diabetes, agoraphobia,..

Origine: between the ages of one to three ( after experiencing sensual pleasures)

Concerned Parent: the primary caregiver who most of the time happens to be the mother. 

Personality:

• finds pleasure in suffering
• Trouble to express feelings because afraid to be shamed
• repress their impulses in sex and food. 
• feeling limitless and can feel inferior, unworthy and dirty.
• afraid of getting punished if they enjoy themselves too much. 
• according to them being free is being boundaryless and overindulging in pleasure. 
• believe that they need to sacrifice themselves. 

Greatest fear and need:

Their greatest fear is freedom and ironically their greatest need is freedom as well

Body Type:

Usually chubby or fat with round, innocent eyes, store tension in their neck, throat, jaw, and pelvis

May suffer from problems with the back, shoulder, throat, respiratory system,...

Origine: ages of two to four (Due to unresolved Oedipus complex: felt manipulated or betrayed because their phallic expectations weren’t fulfilled)

Concerned parent: the opposite sex. 

Personality:

• has a responsible, strong and demanding personality.
• opinionated, jump to conclusions quickly 
•  good at lying, manipulating and seducing others. 
• cares a lot about their reputation
• impressed by famous and rich people, and seek to be special/important as well.
• don’t trust easily, especially the opposite sex. 
• don’t like to disclose their weaknesses. 
• position themselves as being very independent 

Greatest fear and need:

Their greatest fear is dissociation and denial and their greatest need is freedom. 

Body type:

Their bodies look thick, intense and seductive eyes.

May suffer from diarrhea, sexual impotence and paralysis

Origin: between the ages of four to six (When parent is harsh, cold and critical)

Concerned parent: the same sex parent

Personality:

• perfectionists
• don’t like to ask for help or admit that they are in trouble.
• can act cold, insensitive, envious and angry
• knowledge is more important than feelings
• don’t like to feel and show their sensitive side
• always optimistic and dynamic even when they are sad and tired.
• hate admitting they are sick
• have a tendency to engage in self-sabotage
• have very extreme demands from themselves

Greatest fear and need:

The greatest fear of the rigid is coldness and the greatest need is freedom. 

Body Type:

Stiff and well-proportioned with a straight posture and flat stomach

May suffer from burnout, premature ejaculation, cramps, liver-related problems, dry skin,...