Listen Better

The ability to really listen is perhaps the most important skill you could develop.

Why don't we listen?

• We like to rather talk because when we talk, we're in control. We don't have to listen to anything we're not interested in.
• We get distrac...

Finding a healthy balance between talking and listening is difficult in most relationships, but even harder as you get to know each other, so it’s important that you both get a chance to talk and listen.

Recording is concentrated listening, with the intent to learn more about another's perspective. You're not trying to figure out how to reply; instead, you're listening to understand.

As you tune into another, don't judge or offer advice. Instead, focus on learning more ...